Joy
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Joy Adler B.S.H.P.
Brennan Science Healing Practitioner
FBSH Leader for The Barbara Brennan School of Healing
*Below
you'll find some questions and answers that may assist you in understanding
more about Joy's work with clients.
Note* These questions were originally part of an
interview that Joy did for a holistic medical online magazine,in Turkey,
regarding The Barbara Brennan School of Healing, as well as how she
utilizes her own specialty in working with clients and students. The
interviewer, Gulbin, a Dentist from Turkey, that writes for the chronicle,
came to NYC for a recent Brennan Workshop that Joy lead.
Can you tell us about the healing process the people experience
when they come to you as patients to seek healing and recovery?
I'll actually quote Barbara Brennan here, as I believe she summed
it up best when she outlined "The Seven Stages of Healing"
in Chapter Seven of her book "Light Emerging, The Journey of
Personal Healing," Bantam Books.
"As I watched people through the healing process, I noticed that
the process is never a smooth, even curve upward into health. Most
of the time, people experienced an immediate internal improvement.
Then later patients seemed to regress. At this point, they often questioned
the treatment. Many times they thought they were worse off than before
they came. Their energy fields clearly indicated that they were indeed
better. The imbalances in their energy fields were much less; their
organs were functioning better.
Despite their more balanced fields, however, they were experiencing
the imbalances they had more acutely. Sometimes they would even have
worse pain. What was happening was they were becoming less tolerant
of imbalances that at one time felt "normal" to them.
In short, they were in better health. I also noticed that people go
through distinct phases during their healing process. These phases
are part of the normal human transformation process. Healing requires
changes of mind, emotion and spirit, as well as physical change. Each
person needs to reevaluate his or her relationship to the issues involved
in a personal healing process and set them into a new context.
First people must admit there is a problem and let themselves experience
(feel) the problem. They need to come out of denial about the situation.
I noticed that each time a person experienced "getting worse,"
he or she was coming out of denial and into consciousness about another
aspect of the problem. Many times patients thought they were angry
because they were getting worse. Actually, they were angry that there
was more to deal with.
Most patients would then search for a way to make it easier; they
wanted an easy out. Many would say things like, "I've done enough
work on it" or "oh no, not that again." Finally, if
the person decided to go deeper, there would be the willingness to
go the next round, expressed in statements like "Well, okay,
let's go for it."
Healing, like therapy, is a cyclical process that carries a person
on a spiral of learning. Each cycle requires more self-acceptance
and more change as one goes down deeper and deeper into the true,
clear nature of the real self. How far and deep each of us goes is
entirely our own free choice. How each of us takes the spiral journey
and what road map we use is also a free will choice. Rightly so, for
each path is different.
All disease requires change within the patient to facilitate healing,
and all change requires the giving up, surrender, or death of a part
of the patient--whether it be a habit, job, lifestyle, belief system,
or physical organ. Thus you as a patient/self/healer will experience
the five stages of death and dying that Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
describes in her book "On Death and Dying".
They are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. You
will also go through two more stages: rebirth and creation of a new
life. They are a natural part of the healing process. It is of utmost
importance for the healer to accept whatever stage the patient is
in and not to try to pull them out of it. Yes the healer may need
to lead them out of it because of a physical danger that may be involved.
But it must be a gentle leading.” Healing
Q.
Joy, in light of your education and career, how do you evaluate
a client?
A. First of
all, I have profound empathy and understanding of how trauma, or
adverse experiences deeply imbalances and impacts a person's mental,
emotional, physical, and spiritual beingness. This has become a
specialty for me in my practices in Albany NY, and Manhattan. I
have deep sympathy for clients who have suffered emotional duress,
trauma, or abuse, that ultimately blocks them from what they long
to create.
When a person
first comes to see me, I work to develop a healing plan or strategy
to assist them in the emotional release of these circumstances that
get held in ones physiology that eventually cause physical pain,
fears, anxiety, energy depletion, depression and stress related
illnesses. I base this on their history, medical intake, and conversations
with my client regarding their life experience, and encourage them
to “feel” where they are holding that in the body.
At times it
is clearing trauma from an accident, childhood stress or a physically
related stress. Many times, it stems from a feeling of “emptiness”
or unfulfillment in their lives. And the healing journey becomes
releasing ‘held down essence” and journeying to discover
why a person will not “give themselves what they long for”,
and all the accompanying images held in the body, soul and psyche
around that.
Once we address
what has been held down in the cells from past traumas, and begin
connecting to that, and then clearing it in their healing sessions;
physical wellness, emotional, spiritual and psychological balance
is often restored! Many illnesses that a client may have developed
due to emotional trauma, dis-ease are healed, ( brought into balance,
by facing them, feeling them, clearing the old energies held there)
and the client experiences a newfound state of health, balance and
wellness. This frees them to enjoy their lives!
The energies
that pour forth, that had been stored in the body also help to release
previously depressed creative energies that begin to assist a client
in healing on all levels including renewed energy for self-care,
or redefining their lives, their priorities. (I think this coincides
with the 6th and 7th stage of healing that I quoted from Barbara
earlier). Sometimes a person realizes they aren’t living the
life they dreamed of at all. And a client may make huge shifts,
including career changes, relational changes, geographical changes
etc. For me, it is very fulfilling indeed to watch someone really
risk creating the life they want, by clearing all the reasons why
they don’t, and going for it!
I find this
to be an extremely rewarding career, particularly knowing that my
life and path were not in vain, and I am most thankful to my own,
at times, adverse early childhood experiences that prepared me for
this career. In other words, I am who I am because of those early
childhood experiences, and being able to assist others and help
show them the way to balance is a wonderfully fulfilling path indeed!
I feel grateful
to my mother, a healer in her own right, whose family was from Portugal.
She didn't have the training that I received, she was "old
school" so to speak, and gave and gave, so she burned out her
body from over care taking...I learned a lot from her about the
need to "balance" for the healer, so it’s no surprise
that I continually seek that balance for myself and I also teach
that to professional therapists, physicians and caretaker's of all
sorts. So again, I am who I am because of what I experienced in
life, and I'm so grateful for the parents I had and what I learned
from them. As you can read, this has shaped my healing and teaching
practice.
To be more
clear, once we glean through our own healing process, the gifts
from our own wounds, we realize our specialty. Naturally people,
our clients or students that have a similar path, experience or
wound are drawn to those that have forged a path before them. I
liken being a healer to clearing the path to fulfillment by continually
working to clear all of our blockages, fears, pain, that we may
have personal freedom. Then we turn and reach our hands out to others...and
help them out of theirs, knowing from our own healing process, how
this is done. Remember, “we can only take a client to the
places that we ourselves have traveled.”
Q.
What can you say about protecting and taking care of health as a
whole and about the origins of illnesses and disturbances?
A. I believe
that all illness, all imbalances are a gift to us, a "red-flag
system" if you will, that sends a message to us, about the
need to balance something, or some aspect of our lives. Or to acknowledge
an area where we have “held something from the past,”
in order to come to terms with, finally feel and release it, or
get refocused on self some aspect of our lives. Healers assist a
client to “get the gift” from this internal “red
-flag system.” This is a positive spin on what can at times
be a frightening time. Healers are trained to assist a client or
patient to find the message or “gift” that any circumstance
is teaching them.
In our training
at The Barbara Brennan School of Healing, we learn how to bring
that awareness to the client or patient, from our knowledge of the
anatomy and physiology of the human energy field, chakra system
and how it correlates to illness and dis-ease. As well as how that
affects every aspect of the client's life. Healers are particularly
adept at assisting the client to bring balance to areas that they
were formerly in denial about, and thus will need to choose (as
mentioned above) or surrender something that is taking them out
of balance, affecting their health or sense of wholeness. (Again,
as Barbara describes in the aforementioned excerpt from her book,
“Light Emerging.”
We as healers,
then assist in restoring balance and wholeness in the healing session
as we were trained to do, via the healing techniques we learn in
our education at BBSH, as well as the courage to “feel our
feelings“ from our own deep process and therapy.
The healing
session may be two-fold, The restorative healing treatment, coupled
with suggestions to the client to make shifts that would benefit
that balance in their lives, (that they are ready to hear), that
will help them to hold the healing work, and for wholeness. This
creates a partnership with the client, as a support and as part
of their healing team which at times interfaces with their physician,
chiropractor etc.
But remember,
all healing is "self-healing", the client will receive
the healing to the degree that they can surrender and open to the
healing energies that the healer channels to them in the session.
The energy goes where the client allows it to. This is very empowering
and important for a client to learn. That way we humbly remind the
client they are in charge, they have free will as discussed in Barbara's
books, they make the choice to heal. Prior to that knowledge, they
may have felt like they had "no power" or were a victim
of circumstance or their body betraying them.
Q.
Your school is one of the most famous, well-known and appreciated
schools in the world. What is your anticipation about the role and
function of healing and dedicated schools and organizations on healing
they will lead all over the world in future ?
A. In truth,
it goes back to the answer for the first question, the better trained
healers are, in healing themselves, discovering their own specialties,
and bringing them home to their communities, cities, towns...etc...the
more people are educated about the new paradigm of healing. Which
is as Barbara refers to it, "Full Spectrum Healing," treating
the whole person. Therefore, the healers that have good training,
will assist in educating the world that we are in partnership for
the better balance and health of a patient.
Full
Spectrum Healing refers to the need of a patient to have a team
for good health. Their medical doctor, nutritionist, acupuncturist,
dentist, their psychologist, and their healer for example. Together
they create a marvelous team that assists a patient with remembering
who they are body, mind, emotions and spirit. This affects all levels
of a human being. In a more full, whole manner. In that way, every
aspect of human kind is held, supported and acknowledged, that from
my perspective of what Barbara teaches, creates full spectrum healing,
or “holographic healing, “ as outlined in her groundbreaking
book “Hands of Light“. And of course this helps to heal
the world, one person, one family, one community at a time. This
folds out into "The lake of life"...it has a ripple effect
and helps vibrationally lift the consciousness of all...
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